The Art to Photograph Camera shy People

Daniel • updated January 7, 2023 • 5 min read

Photograph Camera shy People

If you’re reading this, you’re probably struggling with the same issue that I used to face all the time: how to photograph people who are camera shy. Trust me, I know how frustrating it can be to try and capture a great shot of someone who is constantly looking away or avoiding the camera altogether.

But don’t worry, I’ve learned a few tricks over the years that have helped me to overcome this challenge. In this article, I’m going to share those tips with you so that you can start taking amazing photos of even the most camera shy subjects. So grab your camera and let’s get started!


Building rapport and trust with the subject

Building rapport and trust with the subject is crucial when photographing shy people. These individuals may be more self-conscious or anxious in front of the camera, and it’s important for photographers to create a comfortable and welcoming environment.

This can involve taking the time to talk and get to know the subject. Give them the impression that you are friendly and that they may feel at ease being around you.

Feel free to share information about yourself and your background in photography with them. Knowing you are skilled at what you’re doing would reassure them.

You can also explain the process of the photoshoot and give the subject control over their own appearance. This can include letting them choose their own outfits or locations or simply asking for their input and feedback. 

Read also our advise about best hairstyles for photos to make the most out of it.

By making the subject feel like they have a say in the process, photographers can help put them at ease and make them feel more comfortable in front of the camera.

TIP: Talk to your model in a kind manner to help them feel at ease in front of the camera. To ease the awkwardness, tell jokes or stories. Make them feel as though they are talking to a friend rather than a photographer.

Be patient and understanding

Photographing shy people may require more time and effort, and it’s important for photographers to be patient and allow the subject to warm up to the camera at their own pace. This can be done by giving the person breaks or time off, or it can be done by just understanding and caring about how they feel.

Shooting at comfortable location, the persons knows
Shooting at location, the persons knows, @danielhering

Shooting in locations that are familiar to the subject

Shooting in familiar or comfortable locations can also be beneficial when photographing shy people. These locations may be places where the subject feels more at home or at ease, such as their own home or a place they visit frequently.

By shooting in these locations, photographers can help create a more relaxed and welcoming atmosphere, which can put the subject at ease and help them feel more comfortable in front of the camera.

If the person is for example likes a specific outdoor location, make sure you read our guide about how to outdoor portrait photography.

Begin with basic positions

Include basic stances that are simple enough for beginners to copy. To make the subject more at ease throughout the session, have a copy of these postures on your phone as a reference.

Avoid challenging stances that could be difficult for subjects who are bashful. If you shy person is a boy or a man, have read our tips about how to pose and photograph men

Simple basic posing
Simple basic posing, @sadswim

Make them take action

Have people who don’t like being in front of the camera do things that will keep them from posing, like wandering around or doing something natural like reading or sipping coffee.

This will help them feel more comfortable during a photo shoot. Action elements, such as having the subject run or jump, can make photos appear more lively and enjoyable.

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Utilize objects as props that they can grasp

Using props is a great way to get people to open up, especially when you’re taking pictures of kids. Having a variety of fun things to play with makes the place where you take pictures more fun.

This encourages more original and spontaneous expression from your subjects. You find our guide about how to take portrait photos with props here.

Incorporate props for a more relaxed atmosphere
Use props for a more relaxed atmosphere, @enginakyurt

Benefits of a long lens or shooting from a distance

Using a long lens or shooting from a distance can be a good way to get natural, unposed photos of shy people. One of the benefits of using a long lens is that it allows photographers to capture shots from a distance without drawing too much attention to the camera.

This can help shy people feel more at ease and less self-conscious, as they may be more comfortable with the camera being farther away.

Capture candid moments with your camera

When taking pictures of shy people, it’s important to catch them in natural moments because that’s when they show their true personality. Moments like these can be planned or happen on their own, but the person being photographed usually interacts with their environment or with other people.

One way to find and photograph real moments is to be patient and pay attention. This could mean keeping an eye out for natural breaks in a conversation or movement, or it could just mean paying attention to the person’s body language and facial expressions.

By paying attention to these cues, photographers can anticipate and capture candid moments as they happen. Take also special care about people wearing glasses.

Look for candid moments
Look for candid moments, @kevcostello

Respect the subject’s preferences when it comes to editing

When editing photos of shy people, it’s important to respect boundaries and preferences. This can mean that you involve the subject in the editing process and pay attention to what they want.

Photographers shouldn’t make big changes to the way their subjects look. Instead, they should focus on bringing out their natural beauty. It’s also important to obtain consent before sharing any images.

Obtain consent before sharing any images

There are a few different ways to obtain consent before sharing images of shy people. One option is to simply ask the subject for their permission before sharing any images.

This can involve showing them the images and asking if they are comfortable with them being shared, or simply asking for their consent in general.

Including a model release form as part of the photo shoot is another option. A model release form is a document that outlines the terms and conditions of the photo shoot and includes a section where the subject gives their consent for the images to be used and shared.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the reasons why people are camera shy?

There are many reasons why a person might be camera shy, including:

  • Low self-esteem or self-consciousness: Some people may feel self-conscious or insecure about their appearance or the way they look in photos.
  • Lack of experience: Someone who is not used to being in front of a camera may feel uncomfortable or awkward when they are asked to pose or perform for the camera.
  • Fear of judgment: Some people may be afraid of being judged or criticized based on their appearance or the way they look in photos.
  • Social anxiety: Some people may have social anxiety, which can make it difficult for them to feel comfortable in front of others, including a camera.
  • Past negative experiences: Someone who has had negative experiences in front of the camera in the past may be more hesitant to be photographed again.
  • Personal preference: Some people may simply not enjoy being in front of the camera and may prefer to avoid it whenever possible.

How do you pose for a photo when you are shy?

To help with posing for photos when you are shy, try practicing in advance, using props, engaging in natural activities, finding a comfortable position, focusing on something else, and using positive self-talk.

With time and practice, posing for photos may become more comfortable and natural. Remember to be yourself and focus on your own strengths and qualities.

How to pose for a photo with confidence?

To pose for a photo with confidence, stand up straight, relax your muscles, find a comfortable pose, use props, practice in advance, and use positive self-talk.

Remember to be yourself and focus on your own strengths and qualities. With time and practice, posing for photos may become more natural and comfortable.


Photographing shy people can be a unique challenge for photographers. It’s important to build trust and a relationship with the subject, be patient and understanding, shoot in familiar places, start with basic poses, have the subject do natural things, use props, and think about shooting from a distance or capturing candid moments.

By following these guidelines and being sensitive to the needs and comfort level of shy subjects, photographers can take beautiful, meaningful photos that show the true beauty and personality of their subjects.

Further readings:
Dealing with camera shyness in the world of online lectures
Guide to Public Speaking for Introverted and Shy People
Best Jobs for Introverts and People Who Like to Be Alone
How Harold Lloyd Filmed Girl Shy on Bunker Hill

Tools to bring your portrait photography to life:

What are your tips about how to photograph camera shy people? Let us know in the comments.

By Furoore team member Daniel
Daniel has been supporting the editorial team as a content creator since the end of 2021 and is mainly responsible for portrait photography and related practical topics around cameras, lenses as well as accessories.

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